What can I do when logged in?

You can submit new articles, so we can make unique versions of them and distribute them for you.
If you want to simply publish the same article on 800 websites, you can tell us to do that.
You can see the archive and current status of all your article distributions.
You can order any number of high-quality articles - just let us know your keywords.
You can browse the archive of all the articles we have written for you.
You can order our Complete Service (10 high-quality articles plus 10 article distributions).
You can purchase more credits for our services and check your affiliate earnings.
Much more ...

SpinDistribute.com Article Directory

The following article was published in our article directory on August 5, 2013.
Learn more about SpinDistribute Article Distribution System.

Why Apologizing is the Wrong Response if You Really Want to Get Her Back

Article Category: Relationships

Author Name: Merryl Dixon

Most guys think the perfect answer, after a breakup, is to beg pardon to the girl who got away. Several of them have a difficult time understanding why this doesn't work - or in some situations makes her even more mad than she was initially. Apologizing is just about always the inappropriate response. Here are just a few of the main reasons why.

Apologizing is a Sign of Weakness

Fans of the hit television show NCIS on CBS have heard this a time or two all through its many seasons on the air. It's one of agent Gibbs' favorite sayings. But, it is a sign of being on the poor end of the argument. You never really want to broach an issue from a weaker position.

Apologies Are Seen as Insincere

Chances are good that you've apologized before. Perhaps, you've even made amends for the very things she says are the issues in your relationship. Apologies, without action, do not cause a sufficient outcome to make her happy. While you don't have to change everything about who you are, sometimes, you're going to have to make some modifications to your nature if you want to keep her satisfied and make her FEEL loved by you.

Apologies aren't Specified Enough.

Asking pardon for "whatever you did to make her leave" isn't going to cut it. She needs to hear the specific factor why you're asking pardon. She wants you to recognize that
you've hurt, neglected, ignored, cheated, or whatever it is that you've done. She wants to know that you understand it's incorrect. Problem is, she doesn't always tell you what you did. Which causes the next reason it's a bad idea to say sorry when your girlfriend leaves.

It's Too Easy to Apologize for the Wrong Thing.

The last thing you want to do is add fuel to the fire by apologizing for something you think she uncovered, while failing to beg pardon to the thing that's actually set her off.

Talk about digging in deeper!
The bottom line, when it comes to apologies, is that there are many more ways to get it wrong than there are to get it. If you feel you should ask pardon, it's best to do it in writing and follow these straightforward rules.

1)Be specific.
2)Make your apology brief.
3)Keep it simple.

Putting it in writing avoids a skirmish, gives her time to ponder it over, and brings about an unprejudiced setting where she can process the excuse and what it may mean for your mutual futures.

Apologies, generally, have a negative effect on the future of the loving relationship. Instead of an apologizing, try to find beneficial aspects of the relationship and attempt to
profit from how good you were together as opposed to revisiting blunders that were made along the way.

Keywords: dating, relationships, the magic of making up

Learn more about SpinDistribute Article Distribution System. We also offer Professional Article Writing to everyone who's looking for high quality web content.

SpinDistribute.com Network

Each article you submit at SpinDistribute.com is sent through our innovative Article Distribution System to our network of more than 1840 publishers - about 55% of them are high-quality article directories, 30% of them are niche blogs and 15% of them are other content-rich websites.

To achieve the best possible success we only publish your article to most related websites. This means your article will show up on approximately 640 - 880 most related websites which will give you great SEO results.

We also offer a separate Professional Article Writing Service to everyone who's looking for high quality web content and well researched unique articles.