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Best Way To Initiate A Conversation With A Girl

Article Category: Dating

Author Name: J. Ryu

What is the top trouble guys deal with when they want to approach a girl they find attractive? It is obviously, "what the heck do you say to her." What you say when you first approach will make or break your pickup. What you say must be an ideal balance of flirtiness, charm, humor, intelligence, and should open the door for more conversation while making the girl comfortable in speaking to you. Wow! No surprise most guys have issues talking to women. So what is the greatest method to start a conversation with a woman?

Pickup lines don't work!

A pickup line is most definitely not the best way. Pickup lines don't work. Every half wit knows that. Not only do they not work, they are a bright neon sign stamped on your forehead advertising your lack of imagination, cleverness, and shrieks BORING to women. Ask any woman if they would prefer a handsome dull man or an average looking entertaining man and you will be surprised at the answer.

Women look for VALUE in guys. Not power, looks, or chest/bicep measurements. For the purposes of approaching women, VALUE is anything that catches the woman's interest. And what catches a woman's interest is something that is distinct, intriguing, and something out of the ordinary.

Her life is already full of dull men and conditions and if someone like you comes and supplies value to her otherwise dull existence, you have value in her eyes. When she sees you have value, you are pretty much in and you are free to unleash your charm.

So what is the best method to begin a conversation with a girl?

The very best method to initiate a conversation with a woman is with what the pickup artists call opinion openers. An opinion opener is when you ask a girl her opinion or advise on some issue. You are essentially asking for the girl's help.

On a psychological bynote, feeling useful and needed is among the basics of human life. Not only do human beings like to be asked for their help and advise on something, they crave it and need it because it fills one of the vital needs of life. This is among the secret psychological techniques pickup artists use to seduce beautiful women.

So what is an opinion opener.

One of the very best and most successful opinion openers is the "I'm doing research" opener. A couple of examples are:

Hey, I have a website called attractwomenreport and I'm writing an article called, "What attractive women find appealing in men." What's your take on this subject matter?

Hi, can you help me out real fast? I'm doing my college thesis on the attraction aspects in between women and men. What do you look for in guys?

Yo, I'm writing an article about what turns off girls. Can you give me some input ?

Besides the "I'm doing research" opener, there are numerous different opinion openers you can utilize and you can and really should make up your very own as the circumstance directs. Every woman and situation is different so you need to use your good sense and creativity to create different methods to ask for help for different situations.

Opinion openers is an extremely effective technique that uses a number of psychological techniques to get women to open up and talk to you without it being a straight-out pickup. Of course, you can have the finest opening line in the whole world but it means nothing without the right delivery.

The opinion opener is but one part of the formula though ...

Keep in mind, communication is 55 % visual, 38 % aural, and just 7 % actual words. So if your delivery sucks, what you say doesn't really matter. However, if you integrate effective delivery and self-confidence with the above "I'm doing research" opener, pretty girls will take numbers and wait in line to get a chance to speak with you.

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