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« Back to articles from category "Advice"The following article was published in our article directory on January 20, 2018.
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Why Is It Important To Be Courageous And Improve Yourself?
Article Category: Advice
Author Name: Linda Clay
Even as a grownup, our doubts, fears and insecurities will rise their heads and set into motion the idea of "I wish I was somebody else." More often than not, we think and believe that someone or rather, most people are better than us .. when in reality, the fact is, most people are just as scared and unsure as we are.
Imagine yourself entering a party and right in front of you, you spot a totally eye-catching girl sitting by herself at a party, casually sipping on a glass of Asti Spumante. You think to yourself, "Wow! she looks so perfectly calm and confident."
But if you could read through her 'transparent' mind, you would see a bunch thoughts all meshed together and you'd be amazed at what she's really thinking: "Are people talking about why I am seated here alone?... Why don't guys find me attractive? ...I don't like my ankles, they look too skinny... I wish I was as intelligent as my best friend."
Or we look at a young business entrepreneur and say "Wooh... what else could he ask for?" Yet when he stares at himself at the mirror, his thoughts go from "I hate my big eyes... I wonder why my friends won't talk to me... I hope mom and dad would still work things out."
You have to admit, it's kinda funny.
We look at the people around us, who to us, are outrageously perfect and we wish, all the way down to our toes, we could trade places with them. And unbeknownst to us, they're standing there doing the same thing.
We are all insecure plus we suffer from low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence. (If you didn't catch my latest blog on four ways to gain confidence, you can check it out here.)
We are so wrapped up in this quiet desperation that we lose hope in ever improving ourselves.
What can you do gain self-confidence and improve yourself?
Here are some key things to remember and do:
Self-improvement doesn't have to be done alone. Partner with a trusted friend, one who listens to you and yet will be open and honest when you ask for their opinion.
Be open and ready to hear their advice.
Ask questions, such as "Do I always sound so argumentative?", "Do I talk too loud? or "Do I ever bore you when we're together?"
When you come across to someone else as being willing to listen and hear what they have to say, they will be encouraged to help you on your self-improvement journey.
Keep your mind open and your heart as well and set a positive example for others. In return, you might be able to help them on their own self-improvement path.
One of Whitney Houston's songs says "Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all." True enough. In order to love others, you must love yourself too.
Remember, you cannot give what you do not have.
One of the things we do (without even realizing it) is to offer advice and criticism on someone else's behavior.
Oops! Bad Move. We stick our nose into something, when we don't take the time to do it ourselves.
Before you become a self-improvement guru, make sure you are taking care of your own challenges you face it that exact arena.
Don't judge, be the role model instead. .
A few more tricks and tips to help you:
Stop thinking of yourself as second-rate .. YOU are not.
Forget those naggy repetitive thoughts that hold you back. i.e "If only I was richer" .. "If only I was thinner." and so on and so on.
Accept yourself as you are, it is the first step in self-improvement.
Dump the comparison to others. It only drags you down and there is no place in your life for that!!
Each of us have our own set of insecurities. Nobody is perfect.
In fact, there is no such thing as "PERFECT."
Sure you might find yourself falling into the trap of wishing for better things, better features, better body parts etc. It's okay, it's normal. But remember, it doesn't do you any good to stay there. It builds a wall around you that includes dissatisfaction, lack of confidence and it all leads to unhappiness.
It's not about being perfect, it's about accepting and loving yourself as you are. There is no need for fanfare, fireworks or flashing lights, just a quiet resolve to continue improving, growing and changing as you learn to feel contented and happy with YOU.
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